- Buying off a registry:
If buying a gift from a registry list seems odd to you -- because they won't be surprised or because it seems "unoriginal," put your fears to rest. Couples create their registries to make gift giving convenient for their guests, and take guess work out of the process.
- Shipping versus bringing the gift to the wedding:
Arriving at the wedding without a gift in hand is by no means a breach of etiquette. In fact, it is probably easier for the couple if you have the gift delivered to them before or after the event; as they will be so busy handling countless details on their wedding day.
- Buying a gift after the wedding:
It is most polite to send a wedding gift before or soon after the wedding. If time passes and you've not sent a gift, it's not too late. The couple will be grateful for your thoughtfulness.
